This is a game of one-up-manship. It is illustrated by the following example: Husband: I have a problem. It's getting late and I need to get these leaves raked up before it rains tonight. Wife: Could the kids help? Husband: Yes, but they goof off more than they work. Wife: Well, could I help? Husband: Yes, but then dinner will be late and you know how I have to eat late. In this interaction, the husband gains competitive satisfaction at his wife's expense by discrediting every suggestion he makes.
WOODEN LEG -
This game elicits sympathy and is used as an excuse for failing to become responsible or independent. In effect, the game player asks, "What do you expect of a wooden leg?" The "wooden leg" may be a personality deficiency, a physical handicap, or an unstable past. For example, the parent asks, "How do you expect me to be patient with kids? I have a short temper." Or the person who drinks too much asks, "What do you expect from someone whose parents were heavy drinkers?"
IF IT WEREN'T FOR YOU -
blaming people..if it weren't due to them..you won't be forced to do things...it aims on hitting one's conscience...kind.a "utang na loob" to the manipulator.
Would u?..would u?..haha it's nyc to manipulate pipol in2 games..but it's never gonna be a happy ending..haha
I don't want to be remembered as someone who can't fulfill her dreams.. but as someone who obeyed and fulfilled someone eLse's.
Never picture me as someone so snobbish... but that I can't see you from afar 'cause I'm blind.
kEeP in mind that i AM not RICH.. that I dnt enjoy fine dinings.. eat the right way..(coz i do the messy way most of the tym) be with the company of rich kids and be in expesive places... I'd rather eat at LARSHIAN.. eat using my hands.. be with the MONSTERS.. and be in somewhere else fresh..nyc.cool.and green..
I am never silent. I am listening to you. even if my eyes are of somewhere else. my ears are with you.
I can't let you cheat. coz i dnt cheat.its something I can't do.
You said. I'm so "naning" and stuffs like that. I can't let me fail..coz all my life I am faced with difficulties.. and I need to survive..not fail...not die.
Don't tell me..I don't have the heart. 'cOZ I love you. more than myself.
I'd speak my mind out for you to know hOW i FEEL not to make u feel bad.
Remember that... I do things with reasons..which sometimes.are indeed unreasonable for u. but I do things "right"...what i really think is for the best.. I may regret everything I've done.. Coz i'm not perfect and can never know perfection. But I will never regret having u as a fwend.
I miss the simple life... The danger of being close to snakes.. and the fun of being with boy neighbors..(tomboy q sauna..haha)
Jp..joshua..tita..pijante..bstah my cousins.. wen we wer still growing up...ung bdays nmin n tlgang kumpleto from cake to pabitin.. and the day after..sabay kmi kakain for breakfast..c joshua pah ang bunso..
Yung..whenever it rains.. Mark, patrick me and jesse will enjoy the whole thing... running..being wet..and eating bayabas and manchanitas as the heavy rain falls.
Yung mga days when papang and I would do walking sessions in the morning..then patrick and mark will be there too...tapos maglalakad na kami nyan hanggang STA. MARIA school then at the end..kakain lng plah ng batchoy sa kalinderia....haha
Then..yung piano sessions ko with mark ray..I miss him nah. Yung singing career q with the gradeschool choir..haha Miss cynthia and the recitals i've been in..
hmmm..si madz and the chicken little cast... lalo na tlgah si madz...my dear friend... C kevin and normelyn..ung mga first friends koe sa pilar...
anG CATHEDRAL...and ang chapel ... the lake and the nail... fort pilar and the candles...
si mark ray jud..hu has forgotten me nah(huhu).. michael angelo.. library and the nancy drew series.. the almanac.........
ung ballet room..canteen ung manikin...and the science lab.. and speech lab....
....i first heard of this way back gradeschool..but its lyrics never ceases to amaze me..--shows He's great love for his people...
"Your steadfast love extends to the heavens Your faithfulness reaches to the clouds Your righteosness is like majestic mountains And your wisdom like the depths of the sea
And you come to me..."
..HEART OF WORSHIP..
...reminiscin' hs recollections..hehe
"Though I'm weak and poor All I have is Yours Asus A Every single breath.."
ANIMA ChRiSti..
..super ganda nito..i love it sobra. We sang it (ate tonette and co. sa st.joseph choir area..haha..nsa harapan koe ang mic..haha..but i didn't dare ha..haha
"...From all the evil that surrounds me Defend me and when the call of death arrives Bid me come to thee That I may praise thee With thy saints forever.."
EMPOWER ME...
...ms. Vergara taught us this song...it feels so good to know that someone's there to empower me..
>Finish Nursing..be R.N..practice R.N and get Dentistry abroad.
Pero I really want to pursue first Dent. here, so Plan C was born:
>Finish Nursing..be R.N..take Dentistry-CDU..take board..practice R.N..go abroad...work as a Nurse..study Dent. in Harvard(harhar)...practice Dent. abroad.
Hope I can make it..hehe..
Coz I really want to be someone jud...be a doctor...
pwo ofchorz..I'll use Nursing to gain money..but Dentistry will be the only thing to complete me...
"for education is the only mean towards acquiring the knowledge/informations one desires."
"Please lady, please lady, don't just walk away 'Cause I have this need to tell you why I'm all alone today I can see so much of me still living in your eyes Won't you share a part of a weary heart that has lived million lies...."
we can nvr reach the top until we stop breathing....(haha..bitaw)...
I have come to seek a bit of perfection to sustain my earthly needs...and to somehow prove pipol that i don't suck at all!!!.(haha,jok).
it's a way of proving and gaining your worth and dignity...a way of gaining respect...not to destroy someone...and not to overcome someone...
in life..there'll always be better pipol...in every way..in every field... but these pipol aren't fully perfect....wat they lack might be your field of expertise....your strenght..your ability....
for ex.: a beauty w/o brains...and a brainy lass w/o the beauty,,,
****my ego kips saying: Go Janina!. (haha,jok!)..but yea..******
..for we are born with equal rights...but with different skills...which will make us unite in the end..not divided...
excel in ur own fields..and not try to win everything...cause perfection will never be upon you my dear....but upon Him...
"I grew up kc exposed to so many church songs..and these songs are really the best...hehe..in terms of lyrics and melody...i love 
AS THE DEER
YOU'RE STEADFAST LOVE
